Are you interested in having a world where everyone has a strong standard of living and can afford clean water, healthy food, decent shelter and the time to enjoy life? I know why we do not have it now and how we can get it back – or at least the few who truly want it can do it.
WHERE WE WENT WRONG
Have you ever heard the saying, the easiest person to con is the con man? We’ve all been conned: duped into believing fantasies that never existed and never will. It starts when you’re a child with fairy tales of knights on white horses who awaken fairy princesses who live in castles and have anything their heart desires.
All our lives we are inundated with media that sells lies from the airbrushed models who never looked in real life the way they do in photographs to commercials intended to trigger emotions. Advertising is really getting outrageous now and apparently big brands can get away with using entirely different products in the ads than they actually sell.
Maybe people will finally wake up. Most won’t, but I write for the ones who may. Today I’m not talking about marketing lies – I’m talking about the much bigger lies we’ve been raised to believe and had conditioned into us by the media, employers, and the educational system itself.
ADULT FAIRY TALES
There are many grown-up versions of fairy tales. One is that you should go to college so you can get a career and work really hard so you can retire “someday”. Work life balance is impossible as you work ridiculous hours and forget about enjoying life until you supposedly retire.
When that one gets to people after a while or they get “right-sized” they often fall for the illusions that you can “get rich quick” or how easy it is to make money blogging or with affiliate marketing or in an MLM. Many of the regular readers and commenters in this blog still believe in the fantasy that it is easy to make money online.
Then there is this idea that you can build a perpetual money generating machine by creating a site that rakes in money forever. Yes it is wise to do something that makes money while you’re not working, but you can’t just walk away and go on a permanent vacation. You have to market it and promote it and keep it updated – no matter what “it” is.
WHAT IS WRONG WITH THE WORLD
The problem is simple and so is the fix. We have to stop believing in fairy tales and open our eyes. We have to stop allowing people who do NOT have our best interests at heart to control everything by allowing them to condition us to do what THEY want us to do. If we do not, they will keep taking until every economy collapses and the only choices we have left are what they provide.

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CORPORATE TAKEOVER
Most people do not know the evil being perpetrated around the world by those who control multi-national corporations and even when you tell them they do not care. I am not writing to them. I am writing to those who DO care to ask them to change what they do:
- Stop believing lies.
- Do not forgive people or corporations when they do evil.
- Vote with your money by buying from small businesses.
- Create small businesses that grow through consistent quality products and services.
Do not be naive enough to believe leopards change their spots or snakes will decide not to bite when you give them another chance. If you know a con artist in person you know they do NOT change. Neither do the people behind corporations who have forgotten that originally corporations were mandated to serve the public good – not to make profit their one and only goal. That is now referred to as Corporate Social Responsibility:
Corporations now have PR specialists working on greenwashing what they do. They have always invested a lot of money internally and publicly on swaying opinions because appearances are what concerns them – not substantive changes. They do not care what the public, their customers or their employees need. They only want to ensure it appears they do.
There is a much easier way to create a better world for us all than trying to reform corporations that have no interest in changing.
BUY LOCAL
Every penny you give to a small business makes a difference because they spend much more of that money locally. EVERY PENNY! They pay overhead, and taxes that support services like fire departments, and they pay people a living wage.
According to a study commissioned by Local First:
$73 of every $100 dollars we spend in locally
owned businesses STAYS in our communities!Only $43 of every $100 dollars spent in
non-locally owned businesses STAYS.
That extra $30 means more local sales tax revenues and more jobs and higher pay and benefits for people in your community. Small businesses also pay more in property taxes that support schools and fire departments.
Imagine how much more than $30 that would be if your local small businesses start sourcing more of what they sell locally. Most currently buy from major suppliers and NOT from other local businesses – but they COULD and they WILL if you encourage and support them!
This infographic image makes that easier to see: Use THIS LINK to see the infographic full size.
WHY SMALL BUSINESSES ARE HURTING
Sadly, even in small towns where people have been buying from their neighbors for generations, as soon as Wal-mart comes to town with their promises of low prices most people can’t wait to go there. Then as their local businesses shut down, they are sincerely sorry but apparently not intelligent enough to realize they close because they stopped supporting and buying from them. Either that or they are in denial.
We can reverse this trend. We can stop letting Wal-mart and other big box stores get away with what they’re doing:
- Transferring their costs of doing business onto taxpayers
- Squeezing their suppliers until the products they make are junk that don’t last more than days, weeks or months.
- Operating with part time workers so they do not have to give them benefits.
There are now dozens of studies showing how detrimental Wal-mart is wherever they build. Movies have been made and sites dedicated to why we should never shop at Wal-Mart. There are links to many of them in my story of a small Texas town that still thrives because Walmart has not come to town – yet.
Corporations already have an unfair advantage without being given tax breaks to put small businesses under. The same people who control them control all the major media. They have huge advertising budgets and they can advertise online because they are everywhere. That does not work for small businesses who only operate locally.
STOP RELYING ON GOOGLE
The media was instrumental in making Google “the” search engine and with that monopoly on both paid and organic traffic and their announced goal of cleaning up the “Internet cesspool” by using Google to favor big brands, small business doesn’t have a chance.
Bloggers can encourage their readers to use Google alternatives including alternatives to Google search and alternative search engines such as DuckDuckGo.com. Every search we do somewhere else takes a little power away from Google. But that is not enough.
WHAT WE REALLY NEED
The time has come for some of us to start building alternatives to all things corporate. That means not only Google but also Facebook, Twitter and other social networks plus sites like Amazon. We will continue to use their systems to connect, but then bring those we meet to key independent solutions. I need your help to identify them and spread the word.
Ideally, we would all use and recommend the same specific alternatives, but there may be different groups who use alternatives to the ones I have chosen. These are what I recommend so far:
- Blogging Community: BlogInteract ~Why Blog Interact is the Best Blogging Community ~ We need a place to socialize and connect with other bloggers besides our individual blogs and you can offer your services in the BlogInteract classifieds.
- WikiReviews ~ I’ll be writing a post about this HONEST independent review site featuring both written and video reviews soon. You can read about them in this WikiReviews PRWeb Press Release. They are running an IndieGoGo campaign and could use our support.
- Recommended Products and Brands ~ We need to know what is worth buying and what isn’t which is why we need the review site and also to share companies when we find them.
REAL CONTENT MARKETING
Traditional media claims they are impartial and many blogs try to emulate their policy of not writing about small business. Instead, they play this silly game of content marketing where the content is never what we really need to be sharing because they don’t want to recommend anything.
Instead of the real information we need, the writer gets a
link or two in the bio and hopes someone might actually
go look at what is found at those links.
This is ridiculous. If you have a product or service that will benefit my readers, write about HOW it benefits them and how to use it. That is more important than yet another general post about Twitter or social media or SEO.
What we need to know is what really works, who offers it, and how to use it.
For example, I wrote a post about Recruiterbox because they created a way to manage the hiring process and any business that plans to hire a new employee needs a process to manage that. Why publish a guest post about something else written by a company that offers a solution my readers need?
If that is something you need, you can read about it in Small Business Recruiting and Hiring Process Management. I encourage you to subscribe to that blog because I will be writing a lot more small business related content there. See what I already wrote on my author page here.
BE A LEADER
Blog Editors need to start using some common sense and publishing content their readers can use. There is nothing wrong with profiling a business or product that offers something our readers need. If you are risk-averse do not recommend them – just write ABOUT them.
Recommendations are even better, but they are not without risk. Sometimes a great idea doesn’t work out or a site fails or gets sold. There are no guarantees in life. But if we do not recommend and immediately support services we really need we lose them. And then we are right back to the only choices being the ones others make for us whether we like it or not.
How about you? Are you ready to change the world?
Will you join me in leading the way to local self-sufficiency?
Make a difference – buy local – support and recommend small businesses!
Every penny you redirect matters!What are you doing? Share in the comments. (Relevant links are fine.)
Not sure what to do but want to do something? Contact me!










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I agree t you in all aspects..
That we all must support the small business and must buy locally. And I also very much agree to all those points that you have mentioned in your post.
But let me ask you something, at the end of the day, don’t you feel atleast once, that “will it be right to buy from thi small store, better if we go to a branded store, afterall I am spending a huge sum to buy it, why to take risk?”
I am sure this question must struck you once…
Great post, with some good graphs and pics..
Its appreciative..
My opinion is “GO For the Smaller Business”
i don’t know what otehr’s will say or what opinion would other gives, but I would stick to my words..
in my opinion we should support local and smaller businesses. It’s more sustainable! this is what i think!
Amazing post!
That is so true that corporates have burdened people’s mind during the 1900s. Luckily we have now the Internet, which seems to change this at least a little. However new corporations as Google etc. appear on the Internet also and I agree that many have problems in their mindsets, me included.
I always look at Google results and I play by their rules to get my sites higher. All of this sucks but I never knew how to act even slightly better way. Maybe I will change my actions now.
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This makes complete sense when you actually stop to think about it. Thank you for taking the time to put this detailed post together. I will be focusing more on the local businesses, going forward.
Thanks for this article, its really pretty eye-opening!
Twitter: gfrankenberry
November 15, 2012 at 12:07 pm
For many people, when you talk with them about supporting local business, their answer is that they live in a large city and most of the business around them are corporately owned. With a little time and research vested, many are sure to find many local stores that offer personalized attention and specialty products that are sure to satisfy their needs. Even a short drive to the outskirts of most larger cities offers the opportunity to find some wonderful boutiques, stores and grocers that that will give the consumer a wonderful shopping experience, great products, and at the same time support local businesses that help drive this economy.
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November 12, 2012 at 5:02 am
Supporting small businesses is going to be the first step in getting our economy back on track. It typically only takes a small portion to make a HUGE difference in your local economy. We have groups in our County that help support and promote local businesses.
When I am out on sales calls, it amazes when I hear the responses out of people “I dont care if your a couple dollars higher than the big box store, your local and we don’t owe them nothing. So yes we would be glad to buy from you.” Responses like this come more often than not, I get the sense that people are catching on to these “Big Giants” and really do want to help the locals and support small businesses.
Excellent post once again, keep up the GREAT work!
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November 10, 2012 at 6:03 am
Thanks for opening our eyes once again to the fact that we are indirectly killing our small business. The big brands does not care and never will so long as they get by, it does not matter whose dreams we crush to get there.
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this is a wake up call many people all over the world need. The Goliath corporations that have grown up in the US are spreading across the world. And as you illustrate in your post, they only create a race to the bottom. We’ve been in this race for many years now and we need to stop the rat race, it doesn’t lead to cheese it just leads us deeper into the sewers.
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November 8, 2012 at 3:20 pm
I try and support local business everywhere I go, I rent my hosting from a local host, I even by my veggies from a local farm shop, every little helps.
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Hi,
I think we should support small and local business.Its very beneficial for so many people in local area’s.I prefer to support local business.
Thanks!
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November 8, 2012 at 6:08 am
I think we all need to support local business in the growing and even bigger than before rat race of big corporations. We don’t want end up with the situation everything will belong to one man on Earth in the future.
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Wow, what a great post! We all need to do a better job of supporting small business! I work for a small business that is a partner with a very large corporation. It is tough to work with them and they constantly do their best to undercut us with price , etc etc. When you work with a small business, you get personal attention, quick response, and fair prices instead of going through the whole corporate run-around and having a bad experience. However, I disagree with not supporting Google as a search engine. I think that searchers should be more responsible with choosing sites to visit off of Google. Okay, we all know Amazon sells Product A and its on the first page of Google. Users should check out some of the other links and do ACTUAL research before they make a decision. We need to support small business to let America grow!
True, I tend to buy from locally owned small stores more often, just because I’m not satisfied with the way the big ones are doing business. Somewhere, someone has to pay for those low prices, believe it or not. I hope more people read articles like this and act accordingly. In my experience, people like to complain, but won’t do anything to change the situation – this has to stop.
So true Mike.
They won’t do anything about it until they have a choice to make, and when they realised what they would have accomplished earlier they get angry.
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November 12, 2012 at 11:29 am
Good call Mike. I had a disagreement with someone regarding corporations. The person thought his vote (in a swing state) didn’t matter because he said corporations run everything anyway. I asked what he was going to do to try and change that. His answer was, “oh ,I’m not that person”. I felt like saying to stop complaining if you’re not willing to do anything. ughhhh….
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Let’s all do our part to support our own small businesses as they continue to strengthen our economy and create jobs.
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November 7, 2012 at 11:50 pm
I clearly agree on the fact that its about time people started taking content seriously. Collecting a few links and assuming that people will go ahead and consume them is no longer true.
We need honest reviews and views from people instead of clutter from all over the web. Its time for us to take charge.
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Media has always exaggerated the news and sold it in the market. Like this, it sells more and they enjoy the profits. It is high time we stopped believing in these fairy tales and miracles and start doing something for real in order to benefit all of us. It will need time and contributions but it not impossible.
Indeed true Peter, Media has always been highlighting news in a manner that it appears very true for everyone. Minute details are exaggerated in order to grab and hold the audiences. We need to open up our eyes now and stop believing in such fairy tales. It is time we make some efforts to help small businesses, which will in turn benefit us in future.
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November 7, 2012 at 10:13 pm
Well, You’ve raised very critical issue here. If you buy only local products and services then we’re helping our local industries and hence all the money remaining in the country itself which is certainly going to be used for our welfare.
This issue is also very crucial because of down economy all around. So it’s our responsibility to make our country economy strong.

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November 7, 2012 at 4:36 pm
It is so beneficial in so many ways to buy locally. It’s our responsibility to research the companies whose products and services we are using to make sure that they are practicing social responsibility. One of my favorite ways to support local business, strengthen the local economy, and to improve my health and that of the environment is to go to the farmers market as much as possible.